RANDOM NAUGHTY THOTZ 055 (GROPING OR NAH)

J Dust: Eyin temi Bawo ni oh

J Dust: Shewa

J Dust: Guys if u are tall guy and u want to pose with a short girl…. Never…i repeat… Never hold their waist

J Dust: This Bishop is in trouble now for gropping this female artiste

J Dust: The video shows him groping her breasts

J Dust: But from another angle… He might be thinking he was holding the waist not the breast…. Just my excuse for him sha… Cos I was almost a victim once… So since then I have stopped holding peoplez waists

QUEEN Durogbola: I don’t think he was groping her o, at least, not intentionally

J Dust: Did u see the video

QUEEN Durogbola: Even if dude has issues, I want to think he wouldn’t flaunt them on live TV

J Dust: He didn’t…. They had to zoom the camera on him

J Dust: He did it stealthily

QUEEN Durogbola: I’m still for the brother sha

J Dust: U have not had people using style to tap current from u before???

Cynthia Omo: TBH, if you watch the video, it really looked like he was squeezing

J Dust: Like I said …in his defence it almost happened to me one day…. @⁨Titi Adeola⁩ remember bimboz wedding that u girls wore this pink sexy dress and every guy was just famzing u in church…. So I wanted to pose with titi… Normal posing where u hold the girls waist but because of our height difference I almost held another thing thinking it was her waist… The man must have been doing that subconsciously in error too… Since then I don’t pose by holding any girl on the waist ?

J Dust: And pressing the side of the boobs

J Dust: U can’t tell me nothing

J Dust: It might not be I

His intention

J Dust: But baba touch something

Cynthia Omo: Even if it was waist, why was he squeezing?

J Dust: Because it was succulent ?

J Dust: Seriously he did that for grip na

Cynthia Omo: When you want to hold a girl’s waist, do you squeeze?

QUEEN Durogbola: That’s the point, it wasn’t intentional

] J Dust: I remember snapping with a girl in church one day and to avoid stories that touch I held her lightly on the waist… Guys were making jest of me

Cynthia Omo: Nah.

 

He could have just done shoulders

QUEEN Durogbola: Affectionately

J Dust: U could see my hands were light and shaky on the waist

QUEEN Durogbola: How many girls have you snapped with in your life??‍♀

J Dust: Exactly my point…. U can’t tell me nothing… The only person I hold on the waist is my wife or mum or sister oh

J Dust: Any other girl now… Na shoulder

Cynthia Omo: For a friend, maybe. I wouldn’t like it.

 

But from a bishop to a babe, affectionately should not be there plix

J Dust: I don’t want trouble

J Dust: If u like think I’m old school

J Dust: Yes… U hold her well… So u don’t lose grip??‍♂

TeeSala: Me I no gree o

] TeeSala: Not just a babe oo… Arianna Grande fa?

Cynthia Omo: I don’t see how waist holding is now a new school thing tho

 

Boundaries are boundaries

Cynthia Omo: He is a Bishop fa!

TeeSala: So, Jdust cannot hold your waist?

Cynthia Omo: What’s my own sef?

 

He has held and now he eyes has seen ween

Cynthia Omo: No sir.

 

He can’t.

Cynthia Omo: I’ll brush his hands off immediately

Cynthia Omo: I’m “local” like that

J Dust: And it might be….

 

Ur flesh can be a bastard…

 

U know there are guys who unconsciously still run their fingers on ur hands while shaking u…. They may not mean to flirt… But just do it because that’s the way they used to do it in the world…. Some guys mistakenly lick their lips when they see fine girls too… Most times it is only our spirit that gets saved… Our souls and bodies have not gotten the memo

TeeSala: Hmmmm… Our bishop nko?

Titi Adeola: ??

Please I don’t know who you eeezzzz!

] J Dust: Not so much… It is why I remember virtually all of them

TeeSala: But for how long will your flesh not get the memo?

J Dust: Abi oh…. Why would a bishop be praising and holding the girl self… He played himself

TeeSala: If I snap with Titi I shouldn’t be holding her waist… Tbvh

Titi Adeola: Just know that I’m going to look for that picture. You shall be blackmailed accordingly

TeeSala: Please find it ooo… You have my support

J Dust: That’s my point…. Who is she… We Christians are confused…we idolize the people who do the same things we preach against… Why would a preacher be idolizing a secular artiste…. God have catch him sef

J Dust: It is oh…. People think u are local if u just hold a girl on the shoulder… So me too I wanted to feel among… Until I had to tell myself the truth

J Dust: ????????

Cynthia Omo: Toh

Cynthia Omo: Me I’m local then

TeeSala: So, he can hold Tasha Cobbs or Joyce Meyer abi?

J Dust: Beht y??? I won’t grop now… Trust me… I will hold ur waist in a gospel way☹

J Dust: That’s the point… A lot of Christians (including myself… I must confess) are guilty of not totally subduing the flesh… A lot of preachers secretly watch porn or watch these artistes who are almost unclad on TV and lust after them…. Some of the men of God have slept with Beyonce in their hearts…. So how will the flesh not be a bastard when they meet Beyonce one on one and have the privilege of holding her waist

J Dust: Some people are Christians but they feed their minds with rubbish

J Dust: There was a day God had to tell me… That if I keep doing some things I might end up like those people who have had sexual scandals before

J Dust: It doesn’t start one day

J Dust: It starts by watching secular musical videos… Then game of thrones… Then explicit sexual clips on IG

Cynthia Omo: He can.

 

I just don’t think he should

Cynthia Omo: ??

J Dust: That was before the picture was taken… Pele u have lost before u started sef?

J Dust: 1 million naira if she can incriminate me

TOUN: Unconsciously or consciously, if you did something, you did it. If you’ve been in Ariana’s shoes before you won’t even be thinking of excuses for this man. That means that low key, it’s in your body to be touching people inappropriately. Yes. As a man of God, you must train yourself not to make such mistakes. His position holds a lot of responsibility and while he’s still human, as far as I’m concerned, there still is no excuse.

J Dust: Emi sharp boy… Emi aromastyle hay

J Dust: Thank you!!!!!

TOUN: Imagine my husband doing such a disgusting thing and telling me it was a mistake. I will make sure I put rodo in his anus while he sleeps.

J Dust: Cc @cynthia… Answer

TOUN: You must learn to control yourself. Simple. Especially when you hold certain positions.

J Dust: Anus or Kizzle

TOUN: Whichever one is more convenient at the time.

J Dust: Wicked house wife

TOUN: If we keep making excuses for things like this, some men won’t learn to control themselves. We have to collectively frown at such things. Mistake or no mistake, It is not okay. Because the lady in question will still feel violated regardless. When a guy mistakenly brushes my boob, whether or not he says sorry, whether or not I know it’s a mistake, I will still feel extremely uncomfortable for sometime.

TOUN: It just messes with me on another level

TOUN: Bite me ??‍♀

TOUN: Someone said why will she wear such a short dress. I had to laugh in German *djrjfjrufidhehzskkekskfkfkekzkejcktkfkxeks

Titi Adeola: I think this is the one thing that pissed me off the most. How can a human being even spew out this nonsense

Titi Adeola: I want to believe that person was just being sarcastic

TeeSala: Me am sha waiting for Perez’s comment on this…

Titi Adeola: Because the usual response is to always blame the “victim”

J Dust: She didnt wear a short dress na… At least he didn’t expose her boobs by the side

TeeSala: Be careful before Chimawomanda’s daughters come for you.

TeeSala: We settled?

TeeSala: All say he is wrong I guess

TOUN: I can’t believe you’ve joined this train ??‍♀

J Dust: The Bishop get potential Shina for body… God forgive me

I think the lesson here is what you do in secret will be revealed openly. We should learn to deal with our flesh in secret before it deals with us in public