“Spiritual brothers”, You too can be romantic.
(please note that this piece has been written with a blend of proper & pidgin English)
Relationship is not an avenue for pretence or fake life. If there’s anything both parties need to adjust about themselves, it should start from their courting days.
So today, I’d be emphasizing on the guys more;
Dear spiritual brother, learn to stop spiritualizing everything in your relationship. Which one is “Did the Holy Ghost permit us to talk today? Ha! uncle, “abeg take am easy” (uncle, please take it easy)
Why won’t you talk to that dear sister everyday if possible; the annoying part of this is that they (some brothers) now act so serious in the relationship, trying to prove to their lady that they are the man or that feeling of ” I am the man here” hmmm, over seriousness kills relationship oo so keep your ego aside and be a gentleman to your lady.
I have an issue with church guys calling their lady woman of God or one spirit koko name like that, yes na! how can i be dating you and no romantic name ever crossed your mind, ahh uncle be calming down o last last this heaven is for all of us but for now ehh try and do the needful.
Later now you’ll say she broke your heart or dumped you for another person but the question is why won’t she dump you?
You can’t compliment her when she changes her hair, You can’t call her pet names for her to feel like a baby sometimes sef, everyday is from one spiritual name to another now you’re calling her “anointing oil”. Nawa o
You can’t freely gist with her and be childish around her. Your own is to be carrying strong face with suit inside hot sun. Uncle we already know you love God but some of the things you do are really not necessary.
Once you claim to love someone, you can literally be a child for that person just don’t over do it. If you don’t spice things up in your relationship, then marrying you will be so boring and boredom can lead to anything. Make that relationship interesting, turn yourselves to gist mates; do amebo together…
Just fill all the loopholes to make your partner yearn for more, let them never get comfortable without hearing from you, because definitely your voice or presence will put a smile on their face and a longing to spend more time with you.
So, it’s your duty to make your relationship interesting and just learn to be adventurous.
Before I forget, you see that word “I love you” ba, you won’t go to hell for saying it.